The holidays are a magical time to bring people together and fill your home with laughter, conversation, and the warmth of connection. Yet, too often, we let the fear of entertaining—be it costs, perfection, or a lack of Pinterest-worthy decor—hold us back from opening our doors. As an etiquette consultant and someone who adores the art of hosting, I’m here to tell you that it’s not about extravagance. It’s about togetherness.
Recently, I had the pleasure of contributing to 6 Expert Ways To Save on Last-Minute Groceries for Your Christmas Feast by GoBankingRates where I shared tips on how to keep entertaining costs down this Christmas. One of the key messages I emphasized is that hosting doesn’t have to break the bank. In fact, some of the most cherished memories are made over the simplest meals and most unassuming settings.
Hosting on a Budget: It’s the Thought That Counts
1. Keep the Food Simple and Hearty When feeding a crowd, skip the intricate appetizers and opt for comforting, crowd-pleasing dishes. Large, hearty sides like mashed potatoes, mac and cheese, and roasted seasonal vegetables are budget-friendly, easy to make in bulk, and always a hit. Pair these with a simple main dish, like a baked ham or roasted chicken, and you’ve got a feast without the fuss.
2. Share the Joy (and the Cooking!) Don’t hesitate to ask family or friends to bring a dish or dessert to share. Hosting doesn’t mean you have to do it all alone. Potlucks not only ease the financial burden but also add a layer of community to your gathering.
3. Focus on Activities, Not Extravagance Sometimes the simplest activities bring the most joy. Play holiday music, have a family game night, or share a favorite holiday movie. These moments of connection will be what your guests remember most.
Memories Over Perfection
Hosting isn’t about showing off or striving for perfection. It’s about making memories. It’s about laughing with loved ones, sharing stories, and finding joy in the togetherness of the season. Your home, just as it is, is enough.
This Christmas, let go of the pressure and embrace the heart of hosting. Whether it’s a simple meal around your kitchen table or a cozy evening in your living room, your guests will walk away feeling loved and grateful—and so will you.
Wishing you a holiday season full of warmth, joy, and memories to cherish.
With love,
Bethany
Bethany Skorik is an etiquette consultant and founder of The Charming Diplomat, an agency dedicated to elevating manners, style, and gracious living. Visit The Charming Diplomat for more ideas on elevating your personal style and presence.
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